“The first step in dealing with an abusive spouse is to get out of denial.” Dr. David Clark, Ph.D
Why did I stay so many years in a marriage that was increasingly abusive? Fear, denial, and a misunderstanding of the Christian concepts of forgiveness and submission kept me emotionally hostage in a destructive marriage. Mostly, I was scared to death to make a change. Scared to rock the boat, scared of his rage, and scared of the impact a divorce would have on my children. But now I know the truth:
Scared is no way to live.