Weekend Wisdom – Feeling Misunderstood

If you decide to separate or divorce from your abusive or narcissistic spouse, you will be misunderstood. Friends, well meaning or not, will give unsolicited advice. Some of it will be helpful, some stunningly hurtful.


This is your journey, not theirs. It may not be the journey you want to be on. (It sucks. No other word describes it so accurately.) BUT it’s the journey we ARE on. Until others walk a day in your shoes, they will not understand. Move forward. Forgive them. Find friends who do understand. Remember that God understands and loves you deeply.  “I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore I have drawn you with loving kindness. I will build you up again.” Jeremiah 31:3-4 

Love and blessings,



image credit: John Rinehard, www.desiringGod.org

2 thoughts on “Weekend Wisdom – Feeling Misunderstood

  1. Thank you, Kerensa! I am touched that my journey has been helpful or affirming to you. It has been a difficult road but I’m grateful for what I’m learning and for the wisdom and support of others in this community.

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